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- About by: Jarl Mezentius
November 23, 2009, 10:35
- Site Map by: Jarl Mezentius
December 13, 2009, 16:16
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- BDSM (43)
- A Lesson In BDSM by: Jarl Mezentius
February 27, 2010, 20:50
You can find me in chat almost all the time now… I’m very much the tech guru and at my computer a lot. Today, I had this conversation in chat, describing…
- Johnny Collins – a Real Country Chrismas Memorial by: Jarl Mezentius
December 27, 2009, 10:52
This is the true story of what my morning was like this Christmas Day. Johnny would have loved and understood it. I thank him for giving me the best gift ever,…
- Types of Gorean Slaves by: Jarl Mezentius
May 6, 2009, 17:08
The World of Gor series features numerous slave types, called kajira. Each type serves an important purpose in the story, setting the scene for Gorean…
- Does BDSM Equal Sex? by: Jarl Mezentius
September 18, 2008, 15:25
This article will share both sides of the debate whether BDSM is sex or not. You will have to decide for yourself where you stand.Contributor: Bea AmorPublished…
- BDSM – Slave Training Using Gorean Slave Positions by: Jarl Mezentius
September 17, 2008, 10:14
This article focuses on Gor and the slave positions found in the books of John Norman about the planet Gor.Contributor: Bea AmorPublished: Sep 17, 2008
- Why Some in BDSM Do Not Respect Gorean Players by: Jarl Mezentius
September 17, 2008, 09:18
The reasons for people being nasty about Gor and its players are discussed in this article.Contributor: Bea AmorPublished: Sep 17, 2008
- Gor 101 – The Slave Silks by: Jarl Mezentius
August 27, 2008, 14:52
The Gor books have long been a secret passion of mine. I have also had the privilege of being part of a Gorean chat room online for a while. I love the poetic…
- Gor 101 – the Sexy Power of Submission as Illustrated in the Slave Dance Part 2 by: Jarl Mezentius
August 27, 2008, 13:37
This article describes some more slave dances commonly appearing in the books written by John Norman and that are used to please the Masters of Gorean slave…
- Gor 101 – the Sexy Power of Submission Illustrated in the Slave Dance by: Jarl Mezentius
August 27, 2008, 13:32
This article describes three types of slave dances commonly found in the Gor lifestyle.Contributor: Bea AmorPublished: Aug 27, 2008
- Gor 101 – the Sexy Power of Submission as Illustrated by the Slave Dance Part 3 by: Jarl Mezentius
August 27, 2008, 13:30
This is the last article in a series of three that describes the dances written about in the Gor books written by John Norman and helps slaves to develop their…
- How to Write a Gorean Slave Dance Online. A Quick Guide for the New Submissive by: Jarl Mezentius
August 27, 2008, 13:13
This article will give the new submissive an idea of how to write a Gorean Slave Dance in an online chat room.Contributor: Bea AmorPublished: Aug 27, 2008
- BDSM 101 – the First Aid Kit – an Essential for Your Toy Bag by: Jarl Mezentius
August 27, 2008, 10:41
This article shares what should go into your BDSM first aid kit to ensure safety during play.Contributor: Bea AmorPublished: Aug 27, 2008
- BDSM 101 – SSC (Safe, Sane and Consensual) Vs RACK (Risk Aware Consensual Kink) by: Jarl Mezentius
August 25, 2008, 11:42
Explaining the difference between SSC and RACK, two very different approaches to BDSM.Contributor: Bea AmorPublished: Aug 25, 2008
- BDSM 101 – Difference Between a Submissive and a Slave by: Jarl Mezentius
August 22, 2008, 13:49
This article will show the reader the clear distinction between a submissive and a slave in the BDSM lifestyle.Contributor: Bea AmorPublished: Aug 22, 2008
- BDSM Relationships: The Responsible Submissive by: Jarl Mezentius
August 13, 2008, 12:39
Responsibility in BDSM is not only something that a dominant has to do or show. It is also important that a submissive takes responsibility for her/ himself.Con…
- Nine 1/2 Weeks and The Secretary and Their Portrayal of BDSM by: Jarl Mezentius
August 13, 2008, 08:46
The so called “lifestyle” has been the subject of many interesting documentaries and other films. These movies brought BDSM into mainstream society and even…
- 4 Safety Tips for the Submissive in a BDSM Relationship by: Jarl Mezentius
July 2, 2008, 12:07
This article gives 4 ways that a submissive can keep herself safe in her BDSM relationship.Contributor: Cheryl WilliamsPublished: Jul 02, 2008
- My Line by: Jarl Mezentius
June 2, 2008, 17:19
By Nature I am a complex and enigmatic person, even to me. I find it very difficult to talk about myself. Instead I’ll talk about the things I want to change…
- BDSM: Using Chemical Castration to Emasculate and Sissy Train Your Man by: Jarl Mezentius
April 14, 2008, 11:44
This Article is meant for purely educational purposes and does touch on some mature content. We are dealing with chemical castration in the BDSM / Fetish World…
- Go Crazy by: Jarl Mezentius
March 30, 2008, 16:51
OK… this is too cool NOT to go here… Go Crazy Video (Yes the guy is ME)
- Top 6 BDSM Songs: Discover the Darker Side of Today’s Popular Music by: Jarl Mezentius
February 21, 2008, 17:18
When well-known popular artists start singing about it, then it must be fashionable. Here’s my list of songs eluding to the BDSM lifestyle.Contributor: Heather…
- The Gorean Lifestyle: A Woman’s Right is Slave by: Jarl Mezentius
January 3, 2008, 12:58
If someone asked you what you do, how would you respond? If you are a Gorean kajira, you are a man’s slave.Contributor: Ann OlsonPublished: Jan 03, 2008
- BDSM Gag Safety Tips: Safe, Sane, Consensual by: Jarl Mezentius
December 28, 2007, 14:49
Gag safety is imperatively important. That cannot be stated more simply, or soon enough. While BDSM play is a normal and highly exciting erotic activity,…
- BDSM Safety: Hard Limits, Soft Limits by: Jarl Mezentius
October 26, 2007, 17:44
By definition, a limit is a point at which something terminates. In the BDSM lifestyle, limits are considered hard and soft limits.Contributor: Margaret…
- BDSM Safety: Subspace and After Care by: Jarl Mezentius
October 17, 2007, 08:27
For those who are new to the BDSM lifestyle, there are certain aspects of a scene that aren’t fully understood until it is too late. One such aspect is…
- A Closer Look at BDSM Collars and What They Really Mean Anymore by: Jarl Mezentius
October 11, 2007, 20:56
Once upon a time to wear a collar meant something very special to a submissive / slave. These Days collars are given easily, are taken even quicker and just…
- BDSM: When is it Kinky Sex and when is it Abuse? by: Jarl Mezentius
September 13, 2007, 09:20
One of the biggest myths about BDSM is that Dominants are just abusers using the lifestyle to make excuses for their behavior. This isn’t the case for the…
- BDSM Safety: Using Safe Words by: Jarl Mezentius
September 13, 2007, 08:58
Have you ever been in the middle of some hot sex and all of the sudden it goes to far? You tell your partner to stop or say no and they listen (or should at…
- BDSM: What it is and What it Isn’t by: Jarl Mezentius
September 4, 2007, 08:28
When asked what BDSM is, the common answer is kinky, perverted sexual practices. Some believe that it’s a form of abuse, others believe it’s just perversion,…
- 10 Great AC Articles on BDSM by: Jarl Mezentius
August 21, 2007, 11:29
For whatever reason you enjoy BDSM and whatever level of experience you have in it, you will find the following articles to be useful and interesting to read.…
- BDSM 101: The Basics of Bondage and Beyond by: Jarl Mezentius
August 16, 2007, 10:39
This article discusses BDSM, what it is and involves. Contributor: Chloe ThornPublished: Aug 16, 2007
- What is a "Safe Call" in BDSM? by: Jarl Mezentius
August 15, 2007, 09:00
In BDSM, a safe call is a backup plan to ensure your safety when you meet with a new partner. It’s a simple way to check in with a contact person so that they…
- Ten Questions and Answers About BDSM by: Jarl Mezentius
May 4, 2007, 13:19
It is much talked about, yet little understood. Erotic power exchange, better known as BDSM, is most of all known for the many misconceptions about it.Contribut…
- A BDSM Beginner’s Reading List by: Jarl Mezentius
November 9, 2006, 14:48
A starting point for anyone who is new to BDSM or for those who are curious but don’t know where to find good, clear information.Contributor: S. M. LangPublishe…
- BDSM for Beginners – Bondage Basics by: Jarl Mezentius
September 20, 2006, 09:39
Bondage can be one of the most delightful, sensual parts of BDSM, but it can also be one of the most dangerous forms, with improper preparation and technique.…
- The Lingo and Language of BDSM by: Jarl Mezentius
September 12, 2006, 18:16
Making sense of all the acronyms and code words in BDSM communities can be a very difficult thing.If a handsome man in black leather at a play party asks,…
- BDSM for Beginners – Safewords by: Jarl Mezentius
September 11, 2006, 17:06
Beginning Explorers in the BDSM World hear a lot of advice from more experienced �players’. Unfortunately, a lot of that advice is worth nothing more than it…
- BDSM Techniques – Clips, Clamps, and Clothespins by: Jarl Mezentius
September 7, 2006, 16:54
Imagine being in the depth of a terrific BDSM scene with your partner. Now, imagine the laundry bag full of clothespins. “What?” You say! A handful of…
- BDSM Techniques – Hot Wax Play by: Jarl Mezentius
September 7, 2006, 16:13
Hot Wax Play in BDSM Scenes can be highly erotic and can be highly dangerous, as with any BDSM exploration, safety comes first – ALWAYS.Contributor: Caged…
- BDSM Relationships – Adult Erotic Spanking and Paddling by: Jarl Mezentius
August 31, 2006, 12:07
Spanking as erotic stimuli is a very popular piece of the whole BDSM or D/s (Domination and submission) culture. WHY?Contributor: Caged Heart PublishingPublishe…
- Aging and Your BDSM Relationship: Growing Old and Enjoying Your Kinks by: Jarl Mezentius
August 9, 2006, 09:35
A short piece on adapting to our aging bodies while enjoying BDSM and ecstatic sex long into our golden years.Contributor: Caged Heart PublishingPublished: Aug…
- BDSM Relationships: Dominance and Submission by: Jarl Mezentius
August 8, 2006, 14:25
People asked me to define my relationship with my husband and Master, after publishing another article, so I have, here. A glimpse into one definition of BDSM…
- Canes & Caning: Introducing Edgeplay Into Your BDSM Relationship by: Jarl Mezentius
August 2, 2006, 00:15
A helpful guide to introducing BDSM Edgeplay into your relationship, and not causing mental or emotional hurt to your partner. Fireplay, Needleplay and other…
- A Lesson In BDSM by: Jarl Mezentius
- Friends (4)
- For My Friend eskimsv by: Jarl Mezentius
July 22, 2010, 11:43
Овде су неке слике од Флори&…
- The Rents by: Jarl Mezentius
July 21, 2010, 11:09
I needed to write this down. Sept 7th, I have to drive my dad to the dentist at 06:30. Apparently my dad finally got a VA appointment to fix his teeth……
- Live Chat by: Jarl Mezentius
June 8, 2010, 10:55
I’ve been very busy these last few weeks, but I have been keeping in touch with some friends in Live Chat Lots of people have been asking for chat of the…
- Out to Lunch by: Jarl Mezentius
May 27, 2010, 19:05
Have you ever had one of those days where you get working on a project and cant seem to find the end of the project, or even a good place to rest? The last…
- For My Friend eskimsv by: Jarl Mezentius
- Health (2)
- The Rents by: Jarl Mezentius
July 21, 2010, 11:09
I needed to write this down. Sept 7th, I have to drive my dad to the dentist at 06:30. Apparently my dad finally got a VA appointment to fix his teeth……
- Meditation, minds, and the Art of Bondage by: Jarl Mezentius
November 26, 2009, 06:46
I can not, in good conscience, allow you to believe that I am an authority on these subjects. I simply have an interest, amongst many interests. Meditation…
- The Rents by: Jarl Mezentius
- My Life (12)
- Live Chat by: Jarl Mezentius
June 8, 2010, 10:55
I’ve been very busy these last few weeks, but I have been keeping in touch with some friends in Live Chat Lots of people have been asking for chat of the…
- GOD LOVES DRUNK PEOPLE TOO by: Jarl Mezentius
June 3, 2010, 16:47
A man and his wife were awakened at 3:00 am by a loud pounding on the door. The man gets up and goes to the door where a drunken stranger, standing in the…
- Out to Lunch by: Jarl Mezentius
May 27, 2010, 19:05
Have you ever had one of those days where you get working on a project and cant seem to find the end of the project, or even a good place to rest? The last…
- Positive Thoughts #8 by: Jarl Mezentius
April 1, 2010, 04:30
The Once Daily Plan. Ask • No one can tell you exactly what you should do to achieve your goal, but one of the best sources for guidelines is to ask…
- Positive Thoughts #7 by: Jarl Mezentius
March 30, 2010, 22:30
The Once Daily Plan. Once a day, take the deliberate time to visualize your goals, describe them in detail, to yourself first, and then to your readers. Sit…
- Positive Thoughts #6 by: Jarl Mezentius
March 27, 2010, 22:30
Sit back and visualize your goals… see them clearly in your mind… take the time to write them down in your blog as well as descriptions of how you…
- Positive Thoughts #5 by: Jarl Mezentius
March 24, 2010, 22:30
Sit back and visualize your goals… see them clearly in your mind… take the time to write them down in your blog as well as descriptions of how you…
- Positive Thoughts #4 by: Jarl Mezentius
March 24, 2010, 10:30
The Once Daily Plan. Once a day, take the deliberate time to visualize your goals, describe them in detail, to yourself first, and then to your readers. Sit…
- Positive Thoughts #3 by: Jarl Mezentius
March 23, 2010, 11:00
Sit back and visualize your goals… see them clearly in your mind… take the time to write them down in your blog as well as descriptions of how you…
- Positive Thoughts #2 by: Jarl Mezentius
March 22, 2010, 05:30
Sit back and visualize your goals… see them clearly in your mind… take the time to write them down in your blog as well as descriptions of how you…
- Positive Thoughts #1 by: Jarl Mezentius
March 21, 2010, 19:04
I know something now that is different, I know I can bring my dreams into reality, and i know you will help me achieve this, as we will help you achieve your…
- Meditation, minds, and the Art of Bondage by: Jarl Mezentius
November 26, 2009, 06:46
I can not, in good conscience, allow you to believe that I am an authority on these subjects. I simply have an interest, amongst many interests. Meditation…
- Live Chat by: Jarl Mezentius
- About Me (11)
- The Rents by: Jarl Mezentius
July 21, 2010, 11:09
I needed to write this down. Sept 7th, I have to drive my dad to the dentist at 06:30. Apparently my dad finally got a VA appointment to fix his teeth……
- User Interaction by: Jarl Mezentius
July 19, 2010, 13:52
So I was online, early in the morning, coffee was brewing, nothing in email to make me wake up or even get interested in the day, but I had company coming…
- Live Chat by: Jarl Mezentius
June 8, 2010, 10:55
I’ve been very busy these last few weeks, but I have been keeping in touch with some friends in Live Chat Lots of people have been asking for chat of the…
- GOD LOVES DRUNK PEOPLE TOO by: Jarl Mezentius
June 3, 2010, 16:47
A man and his wife were awakened at 3:00 am by a loud pounding on the door. The man gets up and goes to the door where a drunken stranger, standing in the…
- Rules by: Jarl Mezentius
May 30, 2010, 13:47
R U L E S Fuck that.
- Out to Lunch by: Jarl Mezentius
May 27, 2010, 19:05
Have you ever had one of those days where you get working on a project and cant seem to find the end of the project, or even a good place to rest? The last…
- This Year – My Christmas Story by: Jarl Mezentius
December 25, 2009, 16:40
Reprinted here by the original author. Check out my recently published content on AC: Johnny Collins – a Real Country Chrismas Memorial Christmas has…
- 100% by: Jarl Mezentius
June 13, 2008, 00:39
Here is a little something someone sent me that is indisputable mathematical logic. It also made me Laugh Out Loud. This is a strictly mathematical viewpoint……
- My Line by: Jarl Mezentius
June 2, 2008, 17:19
By Nature I am a complex and enigmatic person, even to me. I find it very difficult to talk about myself. Instead I’ll talk about the things I want to change…
- Things you learn along the way by: Jarl Mezentius
April 7, 2008, 17:15
Many of the things we take for granted in todays world, you don’t learn how to do, from your parents. Many of the things we learn, we learn in school from our…
- Go Crazy by: Jarl Mezentius
March 30, 2008, 16:51
OK… this is too cool NOT to go here… Go Crazy Video (Yes the guy is ME)
- The Rents by: Jarl Mezentius
- Home (2)
- Florida’s Nude & Clothing-Optional Guide by: Jarl Mezentius
July 26, 2010, 16:19
The Bare Truth About Florida’s Beaches and Resorts By Dawn Henthorn, About.com Guide Compliments of FlaUSA.com Florida can no longer…
- Out to Lunch by: Jarl Mezentius
May 27, 2010, 19:05
Have you ever had one of those days where you get working on a project and cant seem to find the end of the project, or even a good place to rest? The last…
- Florida’s Nude & Clothing-Optional Guide by: Jarl Mezentius
- My Loves (3)
- User Interaction by: Jarl Mezentius
July 19, 2010, 13:52
So I was online, early in the morning, coffee was brewing, nothing in email to make me wake up or even get interested in the day, but I had company coming…
- Erotic Positions – Pleasure a Woman With These 3 Erotic Positions! by: Jarl Mezentius
July 16, 2010, 12:02
Suspended In Air: This is one of the most erotic sex positions. You can pleasure a woman with various unique moves. Start with this one. Have her get on top of…
- 3 Erotic Sex Positions Proven to Make a Girl Climax by: Jarl Mezentius
July 15, 2010, 10:43
Want to keep in touch with the most powerful ways to make a girl climax? The results are in and believe it or not some ways are actually much more effective…
- User Interaction by: Jarl Mezentius
- Goreanism (11)
- Johnny Collins – a Real Country Chrismas Memorial by: Jarl Mezentius
December 27, 2009, 10:52
This is the true story of what my morning was like this Christmas Day. Johnny would have loved and understood it. I thank him for giving me the best gift ever,…
- Types of Gorean Slaves by: Jarl Mezentius
May 6, 2009, 17:08
The World of Gor series features numerous slave types, called kajira. Each type serves an important purpose in the story, setting the scene for Gorean…
- BDSM – Slave Training Using Gorean Slave Positions by: Jarl Mezentius
September 17, 2008, 10:14
This article focuses on Gor and the slave positions found in the books of John Norman about the planet Gor.Contributor: Bea AmorPublished: Sep 17, 2008
- Why Some in BDSM Do Not Respect Gorean Players by: Jarl Mezentius
September 17, 2008, 09:18
The reasons for people being nasty about Gor and its players are discussed in this article.Contributor: Bea AmorPublished: Sep 17, 2008
- Gor 101 – The Slave Silks by: Jarl Mezentius
August 27, 2008, 14:52
The Gor books have long been a secret passion of mine. I have also had the privilege of being part of a Gorean chat room online for a while. I love the poetic…
- Gor 101 – the Sexy Power of Submission as Illustrated in the Slave Dance Part 2 by: Jarl Mezentius
August 27, 2008, 13:37
This article describes some more slave dances commonly appearing in the books written by John Norman and that are used to please the Masters of Gorean slave…
- Gor 101 – the Sexy Power of Submission Illustrated in the Slave Dance by: Jarl Mezentius
August 27, 2008, 13:32
This article describes three types of slave dances commonly found in the Gor lifestyle.Contributor: Bea AmorPublished: Aug 27, 2008
- Gor 101 – the Sexy Power of Submission as Illustrated by the Slave Dance Part 3 by: Jarl Mezentius
August 27, 2008, 13:30
This is the last article in a series of three that describes the dances written about in the Gor books written by John Norman and helps slaves to develop their…
- How to Write a Gorean Slave Dance Online. A Quick Guide for the New Submissive by: Jarl Mezentius
August 27, 2008, 13:13
This article will give the new submissive an idea of how to write a Gorean Slave Dance in an online chat room.Contributor: Bea AmorPublished: Aug 27, 2008
- The Gorean Lifestyle: A Woman’s Right is Slave by: Jarl Mezentius
January 3, 2008, 12:58
If someone asked you what you do, how would you respond? If you are a Gorean kajira, you are a man’s slave.Contributor: Ann OlsonPublished: Jan 03, 2008
- The Lingo and Language of BDSM by: Jarl Mezentius
September 12, 2006, 18:16
Making sense of all the acronyms and code words in BDSM communities can be a very difficult thing.If a handsome man in black leather at a play party asks,…
- Johnny Collins – a Real Country Chrismas Memorial by: Jarl Mezentius
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